What part of this doesn't make sense to you? I personally heard his side of the conversation while on the phone with you and he said he just couldn't give you exactly what you need. Your questions have no cut and dry answers.
If he gives you a curve to use "based on your information" and your information turns out to be inaccurate and your motor blows up or seizes,
who you will hold responsible for that? Yourself? Doubtful.
Not very cool to be so critical to the help Dan did give you. The guy is running ragged most of the time, it is very difficult to get him on the phone to begin with.
... too many variables to even get you started.
I spoke to Dan Lamey. he suggested 24 degrees to 5000rpm and then pull it at 3 per 1000. I tried to get a little more into the setup and into some questions with him but he wanted no part of the convo.