I got one of those Sharkfab throttles too and I hate it now.  I gave it a good try for like two weeks, but I just can't get back on it coming out of stabs and stuff.  
So I still don't know what to get instead.  I don't consider my hands to be small cause I wear a size large glove, but I need the throttle to be easier to reach.
Is the regular UMI straight pull lever any good?  I don't know if I will be able to deal with that angled stuff.