correction, unlucky. some snot nosed kid contested the sale of a ski. it wasn't shipped so there was no proof that it was sent. the kid got his money back. luckly they found the ski and took matters into there own hands.
DOH! I mixed that up.
Let me reformulate my thoughts: Sake, you dealt with 2 ********bags - the kid, and Paypal.
They didn't care that you personally delivered the ski. You didn't have a tracking number.
Additionally, you did not follow rule #1 (you had a bank account with money tied to you pp account).
NEVER EVER EVER EVER use Paypal for large transactions.
I sold 2 couches on Ebay last year (one for 5k, one for 6.5k). I took a deposit of $500 with Paypal, which I refunded after deal completion.
Paypal is teh devil.