on another note........... just keep pushing it to be what u guys want and the right people will get comfortable and stay .......... the wrong people will get uncomfortable and leave......... forums usually get more well governed by the members then by the mods if u ask me........ original members usually try to keep the peace on a board and let newer members know where they stand............ mods should really only have to get involved in major "blow-ups" and even then just to lock or delete the thread........ only thing ive ever seen u and bk do wrong is explain yourselves to much....... threads like this for example........ like 6 members already told the thread starter that the thread was unnecessary ......... all u need to do is let it run its course............itll either ide out or explode .........when it explodes u just get rid of it.......... no explanation necessary because everyone in the thread already knew it had no business being here that long anyways....... dont let people get u so frustrated ........ run the site the way u guys envision it.... my parents had a vision for me growing up...... to turn into a well rounded adult....... they had to "lock and delete " alot of my lifes "threads" to do it....... i didnt like it at all......... and i bitched and moaned that they were "ruining me and my life"......... but in the end i turned out ok........ well thats my opinion ...... others mat tell u im a bit off kilter lol........ just do what yer gonna do....... accept the fact that people will bitch and moan...... laugh at them ....... then move on
I knew I liked you Scott...... Great Post, IMO